Friday, April 20, 2007

Wicked thoughts

Ok...so I'm married..I know..and I know u know..but..but..ok. Well, I travel alot for business..but mostly in the states. My boss gets to do europe..while I'm stuck in north america. But thats not the problem.us see. I flirt..friendly flirt. I talk the talk, but never walk the walk.

When I was taking care of a french deligate, I took them to this dinner. they were 4, 3 guys, and hot knock out frenchie. I tried as much as possible to restrain my wicked mind from screwing up. But knowing myself, I always fail. So I was flirting with frenchie and talking about so many things. The conversation dragged to the nude beaches of france. My boss was winking at me to shut up, in a funny way. I just couldn't. Then frenchie hit me with the bomb. "you are a ladie's man aren't u". I sat back, paused for a moment, and said "no way..I just love to talk to women" with a wicked smile.

Then I started to flirt with the waitress. do u have a boyfriend" I asked. "yes I do, she answered". I quickly followed up with "well, sit down so I can tell you why you need to dump him". It was a lovely evening and all were laughing. My boss sat back and let me lead the night. When all was done, everyonr was happy.

Then few days later, a supplier took me to lunch. Again, my dilemma happened again. Nikki just looked fine. I asked one of the waitresses about her name. I called her to our table, and she came, eventhough this was not her table. I said "hi there...my name is bo3bo3, and I can figure out ur name with few seconds looking at your eyes" She was suprised when I told her that her name is nikki. So I started chatting with her, and at the end of the day, she gave me a piece of paper with her phone number. Then, I knew that my humor flirt was crossing the line. As always, I showed the paper to my wife and she shook her head saying "ma2oltelak ra7 teeji 3araasak ghazz fehalshaghleh" So now, I can never have lunch at TGIF in indianapolis west side.

I need to slow down..but what can I do. I just love sweet talking women..it's just in me. Nothing serious in my mind and no intentions..but..but..I need to stop this before it's too late.

Ok bo3bo3..think sweet thought..think mansaf..or magloobah with chunks of lamb swimming in the sea of love..I mean sea of rice soaked with eggplant and carrots..think man..think.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

i have a similar problem but most of it is safely contained online... just love chattin with men...no harm in it really as long as i never meet anyone

Summer said...

i think as long as you do not cross any lines and you are not hurting anyone, maybe it is ok to flirt! also as long as your wife knows, no harm done...
maybe you should start taking your wife along with you on your trips!! this way you will know for sure you CAN NOT flirt at all! :)

Bo3Bo3 said...

anonymous
I hear ya..and I agree

Summer
I do somtimes take her with me and do flirt even when she is sitting next to me..she smiles and sometimes pinches me or give me the look of "u know ur sleeping on the couch tonight"

Anonymous said...

flirting can be just enjoying the banter of someone of the opposite sex cos u like the way a man or women thinks and expresses themselves...but sweet talking is entirely differant ...now bo3bo3 im sure u know that in the usa ...women are not very used to hearing sweet talk from men ...it is taken as a sexual invitation...how do u think that girl felt when u never called? probably hurt...how many times can this happen before u actually call? ur treading on really thin ice! btw flirting with ur wife around??? come on...if thats true then ur wife is a saint!!!

Bo3Bo3 said...

she is a saint ..and yes..I do flirt with her friends, and with waitresses..she used at it knowing that this is only talk..and never walk the walk. she knows I would never do it..never..not in a million years.

Anonymous said...

i believe u, no one could write so much about it and be doing it, its truly non of my buisness but u read a blog and u have reaction, just sharing my thoughts, dont mean to offend u, god bless u and your family bo3bo3

Sam said...

hubby is the same...he is such a flirt...it is annoying! but how would u feel if someone hit on your wife...and she told u about it..would u think it is funny..or would u get mad..?

Bo3Bo3 said...

anonymous
u didn't offend me at all..sorry if i sounded harsh..I wasn't. Sometimes, u have this strong relationship with ur partner in life to the point of blind trust. As long is the trust is 100% (won't work at 99%)..then neither side will fear anything. My job nature requires constant travel..and socializing with many..so maybe I picked up the habbit there

sam
good question..i can't answer yet..but i will.

Anonymous said...

looooooool ya hamel.

PŕōuđPāŀĩ said...

its simply shu3ur bil na2s that the flirter feels the need to compensate by flirting with the opposite sex (i hope) so the feeling of acceptance would be maintained again.

law enta jozi w jayeeli btetbaha bi phone number la wa7deh u flirted with in a restaurant, id be out! ma basta7mel, its either me and only me or khalas ma fi da3i.